I meant to do a one week post for the little man, but somehow time got away from me and here we are over 2 weeks since his birth. He just had his 2 week check up with the pediatrician, and all is well. Her goal for babies is to be back up to their birth weight by their 2 week check up. Well, Mr. Kai weighed in at 9 lbs 10 oz, or a 19% increase from his birth weight of 8 lbs 1 oz. That’s my boy. He also grew 1 1/4 inches and measured in at 22 inches. These stats put him in the 96th percentile for height and the 77th percentile for weight. He has been in 3 month clothes from about a week old. He wore a few newborn onsies for our first few days home, but that was it. I had some newborn things washed and ready that he never even got to wear. Sad. Lesson learned though, I shouldn’t have washed all of his clothes until I knew what we needed. Most of his 3 month shorts are still too big, but he is rocking the 3 month onesies, shirts and rompers.
The first couple days/nights at home were rough, I’m not going to lie. The first night I put Kai to sleep in his bassinet in our room, and he did not sleep well. He actually threw up twice in his sleep which freaked this mama out, and was up more often than not. I will admit to having a little meltdown around 5am, when Steve finally took him out to the living room so I could get a little bit of sleep. Luckily, that was the worst night we’ve had. Overall he is a good baby, though he definitely has his fussy times and likes to be on his own agenda.
Sleep: Like I said, that first night was the worst. For the most part, Kai seems to realize when it is nighttime and sleeps fairly well. On a good night, he wakes up about every 3 hours to eat. There have been a couple times when he has gone 3.5-4 hours at a stretch, but lately he is a very hungry boy and 3 hours has been the max. He wakes up, I take him to the nursery to feed and change him, then I swaddle him and rock him back to sleep. The first few times he slept in the bassinet he did ok, but he now prefers to sleep in his rock ‘n play. It has a slight incline which he likes, so we have been letting him sleep in that all of the time. Initially I worried that it will be too difficult to transition him to his crib when it’s time, but I have decided that I prefer my sleep and want him to sleep well too. Lately he has been having some tummy trouble (read: gas), so his sleep has been a little bit interrupted by that. He will grunt and thrash around in his sleep and seems very uncomfortable at times. Poor guy. At times like this, he is very loud with all of his noises, so it is hard for Steve and I to get a lot of rest. Daytime naps are all over the place. Sometimes he will sleep most of the day away, while other days he has lots of awake time. He usually takes a killer nap in the afternoon/early evening, but not always.
Nursing: Kid can eat. A lot. In the beginning when he was sleeping longer stretches, he would usually go 2-3 hours between feedings, sometimes a little longer if it was a killer nap. Now however, he often demands the boob every 60-90 mins during the day. He will get fussy, cry, and I think there’s no way he could be hungry since he just ate an hour ago. But when nothing works to calm him down, I give in and he will latch on and eat like he was starving to death or something. I am hoping this is a growth spurt and doesn’t continue for long, because some days it seems like I don’t do anything but feed him and change him. I am thankful that he is such a good eater though and that he took to breastfeeding right away without any problems.
Bath time: We only had to give Kai two sponge baths, as his umbilical cord stump fell off at 6 days. He hated the first one just as much as he did in the hospital, screaming through the whole thing. The second one was better, but ended in him puking all over himself right after he was all clean, which pissed him off and screaming ensued.
I was so glad when we could give him a normal bath, and lo and behold, he likes it!
He owns his pink bath chair that he got from his cousin Aiva. Steve washes his hair and I wash the rest of him, and he just sits there calmly loving the warm water and the big warm washcloth we lay over him. He doesn’t love getting out of the warm warm water, but we do our best to wrap him immediately in his hoodie towel to warm him back up.
Random things: At 9 days old, Kai had his first real outing. Of course it was to Costco with mommy and grandma.
He slept the whole time, which was a relief. I also took him solo to Target for the first time, which I was nervous about but as long as I kept the cart moving he stayed asleep. He has met tons of friends and relatives, and even attended his first party at 11 days old.
Here he is at 3 days old in his first cloth diaper:
Cloth diapering will be a whole separate post at some point, but is going well for the most part after some trial and error. As of now he is in cloth 100% of the time at home, but I have been putting him in disposables when we are out and about. This is partly because we have a bunch of newborn disposables that need to be used up, and partly for convenience. Also, he already looks so different from the above picture. Gah! My boy is growing up too fast. I may or may not have shed a few tears about this the other day. Dang hormones.
Surprisingly, he doesn’t mind tummy time, and we do it a few times a day. Kai has a super strong neck in my opinion, and is able to lift his head all the way up to look at me. We also do tummy time with him on my chest, which he likes as well, especially when he can catch glimpses of the view out the window behind me. He loves to look out the window and will sometimes just stare mesmerized at the sky or a tree or whatever he sees out there.
We have been enjoying our walks outside every day since day 9 when I felt good enough to get out and get a little exercise. Kai usually sleeps the whole time in the stroller, but sometimes he is awake and quietly staring around. I am in love with the BOB stroller and can’t wait to run with him in there when he is big enough. Pushing it uphill is no joke, and I have worked up a good sweat walking plenty of times now.
My heart melts when I see things like this. Steve is such an awesome and proud daddy. Love my guys so much.
Mr. Man had some of the most awesome facial expressions I have ever seen, ranging from super serious to highly perplexed to little smiles in his sleep. He also has the best hair, especially after bath time. It gets incredibly fluffy and soft, it just cracks me up. He also LOVES his hands. He is always moving his arms around, putting his hands in his mouth and sucking on them. He wears gowns with hand mitts to sleep in because otherwise he will scratch himself silly with his razor sharp fingernails.
At two weeks, we took Kai for his newborn photo shoot, which he completely rocked. I was so nervous that he wouldn’t cooperate, but he slept like a champ and let the photographer do her thing. We used Andrea Nicole Images, and Andrea was so great to work with. She put up one teaser photo on Facebook, and I just about died. Can’t even wait to see the rest of the pics.
My recovery: Well, it was rougher than I initially anticipated. Healing from a 3rd degree tear is very slow and painful, but two weeks later, I am doing much much better. Like I said, it took 9 days before I could even get outside to go for a short walk. Now I no longer have to take Advil every day, and I think in another week or so I will feel pretty much back to normal. I weighed myself for the first time the other day, and was shocked to find that I have already lost 25 lbs. I gained about 33 lbs total with the pregnancy, so I was pretty happy to only have 8 lbs to go two weeks later. However, my weight is completely redistributed, and I don’t have a single pair of non-athletic pants that fit around my hips. I have been rocking the skirts on a daily basis, which is fine with me in the summer. I am sure I also have far less muscle mass than when I got pregnant, and overall I feel pretty fluffy. It is weird for me to have a soft tummy with no abs in sight, but I know that once I am able to start working out more and running it will come back. I can’t wait to start running, but I have no problem taking the prescribed 4-6 weeks to recover first, as I know that is what it best for my body.
Overall we are loving our little man, even though he has his fussy/crabby times that leave us frustrated and exasperated. I am torn between wanting him to stay a tiny newborn and being anxious for him to get a little bigger and start smiling, etc. I suppose he is going to grow at an alarming rate, so I am trying to soak it all in while I can. But just look at this squishy newborn face. Sigh.